Tuesday, August 4, 2015

So you are looking for a Job – Me too! by Susan Vagnoni Murphy

(Written July 23, 2015)

I am like many of you out there. I am beginning a job search and feeling all the pain and fear that go with it.  So to try to turn this not-so-pleasant period into a positive, I thought I would write a new blog to try to share what I learn, along with hopefully-helpful tips. And maybe get some helpful suggestions back from all of you.

After ten years working successfully at a company I love, my job was just eliminated.  There seem to be many reasons, but the main one I was given was that the company had grown to such a size that they wanted to make changes in the marketing department.  Needless to say, as anyone would be, I was devastated. As a single mom of two teens I was petrified.

Let me start with Tip One right here: Start logging everything you are doing to pick yourself up and find work.  I mean everything from calls, to emails, to social media contacts, to soul searching sessions. It will come in handy to help you keep your sanity and it will fill in the gaps on the Job Search Record you will be keeping to receive your unemployment.

Maybe Tip One has two parts: Keep faith in what religion you hold dear.  You will need it, because your faith in yourself and others is hurting right now.  I realize you may not follow a formal religion, but you most likely follow a personal doctrine or set of values.  Hold tight to those if that is your path. I have been praying my heart out and I am blessed to have friends and family who are doing that for me as well.  Believe me, it helps you get up in the morning to know someone is on your side and you are not alone.

Okay enough blog for now; back to working on my resume.  If you are looking for work as well, let me know how you are doing.  I wish you resilience, luck and a strong support system.


Best, Susan