Thursday, January 14, 2016

Writing the Script for 2016 by Susan Vagnoni Murphy


If you are a living, breathing human being you may have tried that old, tired path of New Year’s resolutions. It never worked very well for me because there was no foundation to make it happen.  So this year I have set in motion what will be a more thoughtful and productive path to an excellent 2016 in both my job search and my home life.

 Job Tip #9 – Not only embrace the blank page of 2016…write it!

My journey to writing 2016 started with accepting an invitation from a colleague named Hanna Cooper who is a talented Executive/Leadership Coach. Hanna generously offered a mini-end-of-year web retreat to create a plan for 2016.  Having ended my 2015 with no full time work, I felt this was a great opportunity to organize myself for the year to come.

Hanna’s retreat had several valuable steps, but I will recount 3 activities that helped me the most:

  • 1       Writing down my accomplishments in 2015
  • 2       Writing down my failures in 2016 (why did this one seem so much easier)
  •       Writing down the lessons I learned from BOTH the accomplishments and the failures


This process allowed me to put on paper what had been swirling in my head and clogging my productivity, and list out how I had grown and became a wiser me from all of those experiences.
The freeing step Hanna gave next was to tear up the pages on the accomplishments and the failures. With that action they became a thing of the past. The accomplishments would always be with me and I could let go of the disappointments. Best of all, I was armed with the valuable lessons to more forward, unencumbered, into 2016. (There was much more to the retreat and I encourage you to contact Hanna at the link above for any of her very helpful services, or listen to the recording of the mini-retreat here).

For me, I have started my 2016 by getting a couple contract assignments that bring me joy and are in my passion areas. Yes, I am still in the hunt for that special job that is out there for me, but in the meantime, all the processes I put in motion are coming to fruition with a more positive person at the helm.  I am writing and visualizing what I want to see for my sons and me in 2016. 

I hope you too will take the time to reflect, remove the negative, and renew the positive lessons as you jump into a better life in 2016. If you have a moment, please comment and let me know what you have done to prepare for 2016, or where you are in your job search. 


In your corner as always, Susan